If you find you’re looking for a Christian wife, what you’re really looking for is a SINGLE Christian woman. I hate to break it to you guys, but looking for a wife may put you in a difficult situation. If you are looking for a potential wife, I encourage you to get out there and just start making friends with other Christian singles.
As someone who has been on over 65 first dates in the last few years, I have a few secrets on where to find these Christian singles. But first, you must be willing to put yourself out there. I know, you wanna be the cool guy who doesn’t have to try to find a godly woman to date. But I just got one question for ya: If that’s your strategy, how’s it working for you? I mean seriously, when is the last time you’ve been on a date?
And another thing I gotta say: it is not desperate to put yourself out there! I get it, it’s awkward, it’s uncomfortable, but we really are all in the same boat. We’re all Christian singles who desire marriage and in order to do that, we have to date. We’re not desperate dangit!!!
So if you’re up for the challenge here are four ways you can find Christian singles:
- Dating apps. I know, you hate to hear it, but I gotta talk about it. There are SO many Christian singles out there who are online and ready to date. My advice: give someone a chance you meet on an app. Take the pressure off and just see it as an opportunity to get to know another really cool person. Maybe it works out and maybe it doesn’t. And hey that’s okay!! Either way, you met another really awesome single and got to practice your dating skills. It really is that simple!
- Talk to someone in public. I know I know, this is one can be scary, especially for all of the introverts out there. But you never know who you may bump into. I encourage you to practice this, even with people who you might not have any interest in. Spark up a conversation next time you are at the grocery store. When you visit your local coffee shop, try to have a small conversation with the barista or someone you meet there. The key for this one is practice, practice, practice. I promise you will begin to enjoy it after a while.
- Taking part in your favorite activities. What’s your favorite hobby? Do you like to surf on the weekends, play volleyball or take your dog to the local dog park? Do you serve in your church community? Whatever hobbies you have, do more of them! And be open to the girls that are around you! And guys, be bold!! Start up a conversation with a girl you think is cute. It will be so much easier since you know you already share a similar interest with her!
- COME TO AN IYKYK DATING MIXER. Okay this one I may be a little bit biased toward, but it works y’all! We have two couples who are recently engaged and another who is in a serious relationship. . .and thats just the ones we know of!! The IYKYK Christian Singles mixers are a place where we gather up to 150 Christian Singles – even ratios of guys & girls -to get to know one another in a fun and safe environment. Each event is at a different trendy venue, we provide snacks and drinks and we have so much FUN. Since it’s a mixer we play games that facilitate light conversations so you can feel out if there is chemistry or not, and if there is, we have a whole system we use to help you connect with the ladies! We call them flirty business cards 😉 We travel all over to different cities and in each place, we get to meet so many Christian Singles who are craving Christian community outside of their local church. A bonus to going to one of these events is you will not only find a potential date, but also you will make so many incredible friends. We get a ton of amazing testimonials from people who gain so much more than a date from this event all because they were willing to put themselves out there.
So there ya have it, dudes. These are just four ways you can meet an eligible-and-Godly single lady. In fact, if you put yourself out there in at least one of these ways, I bet you could have a date THIS WEEKEND.
And remember King, you are bold! You are worthy of love, and you have so much that you bring to a relationship. So get out there and don’t be afraid to approach a cute Christian girl next time you have the opportunity!
To find out when we’re coming to your city, go to iykykdatingmixers.com and fill out an intake form. In the meantime, make sure you’re also following us on Instagram and Tik Tok @iykyk.dating
– Mel
Co-Founder & Owner of IYKYK Dating
