So you want to find a Christian Wife

So you want to find a Christian Wife?

If you find you’re looking for a Christian wife, what you’re really looking for is a SINGLE Christian woman. I hate to break it to you guys, but looking for a wife may put you in a difficult situation. If you are looking for a potential wife, I encourage you to get out there and just start making friends with other Christian singles.

As someone who has been on over 65 first dates in the last few years, I have a few secrets on where to find these Christian singles. But first, you must be willing to put yourself out there. I know, you wanna be the cool guy who doesn’t have to try to find a godly woman to date. But I just got one question for ya: If that’s your strategy, how’s it working for you? I mean seriously, when is the last time you’ve been on a date?

And another thing I gotta say: it is not desperate to put yourself out there! I get it, it’s awkward, it’s uncomfortable, but we really are all in the same boat. We’re all Christian singles who desire marriage and in order to do that, we have to date. We’re not desperate dangit!!!

So if you’re up for the challenge here are four ways you can find Christian singles:

  1. Dating apps. I know, you hate to hear it, but I gotta talk about it. There are SO many Christian singles out there who are online and ready to date. My advice: give someone a chance you meet on an app. Take the pressure off and just see it as an opportunity to get to know another really cool person. Maybe it works out and maybe it doesn’t. And hey that’s okay!! Either way, you met another really awesome single and got to practice your dating skills. It really is that simple!
  2. Talk to someone in public. I know I know, this is one can be scary, especially for all of the introverts out there. But you never know who you may bump into. I encourage you to practice this, even with people who you might not have any interest in. Spark up a conversation next time you are at the grocery store. When you visit your local coffee shop, try to have a small conversation with the barista or someone you meet there. The key for this one is practice, practice, practice. I promise you will begin to enjoy it after a while.
  3. Taking part in your favorite activities. What’s your favorite hobby? Do you like to surf on the weekends, play volleyball or take your dog to the local dog park? Do you serve in your church community? Whatever hobbies you have, do more of them! And be open to the girls that are around you! And guys, be bold!! Start up a conversation with a girl you think is cute. It will be so much easier since you know you already share a similar interest with her!
  4. COME TO AN IYKYK DATING MIXER. Okay this one I may be a little bit biased toward, but it works y’all! We have two couples who are recently engaged and another who is in a serious relationship. . .and thats just the ones we know of!! The IYKYK Christian Singles mixers are a place where we gather up to 150 Christian Singles – even ratios of guys & girls -to get to know one another in a fun and safe environment. Each event is at a different trendy venue, we provide snacks and drinks and we have so much FUN. Since it’s a mixer we play games that facilitate light conversations so you can feel out if there is chemistry or not, and if there is, we have a whole system we use to help you connect with the ladies! We call them flirty business cards 😉  We travel all over to different cities and in each place, we get to meet so many Christian Singles who are craving Christian community outside of their local church. A bonus to going to one of these events is you will not only find a potential date, but also you will make so many incredible friends. We get a ton of amazing testimonials from people who gain so much more than a date from this event all because they were willing to put themselves out there.

 

So there ya have it, dudes. These are just four ways you can meet an eligible-and-Godly single lady. In fact, if you put yourself out there in at least one of these ways, I bet you could have a date THIS WEEKEND.

And remember King, you are bold! You are worthy of love, and you have so much that you bring to a relationship. So get out there and don’t be afraid to approach a cute Christian girl next time you have the opportunity!

To find out when we’re coming to your city, go to iykykdatingmixers.com and fill out an intake form. In the meantime, make sure you’re also following us on Instagram and Tik Tok @iykyk.dating 

 

– Mel

Co-Founder & Owner of IYKYK Dating

Proof that God Exists

Proof that God Exists

One of the most fundamental questions that humans have asked throughout history is whether or not God exists. While it is ultimately a matter of faith, there are several lines of evidence that point to the existence of a divine being. In this blog post, we will explore some of the key arguments for the existence of God, and consider the implications of these arguments for our lives.

  1. The argument from creation. One of the most compelling arguments for the existence of God is the evidence of design in the natural world. When we look at the complexity and beauty of the universe, it is hard to imagine that it all came about by chance. Psalm 19:1-4 says, “The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands. Day after day they pour forth speech; night after night they reveal knowledge. They have no speech, they use no words; no sound is heard from them. Yet their voice goes out into all the earth, their words to the ends of the world.” This passage reminds us that the natural world points to the existence of a divine creator.
  2. The argument from design. Another argument for the existence of God is the intricate design we see in the natural world. From the intricacies of the human cell to the complexity of the solar system, the world exhibits a level of design and purpose that is hard to explain apart from the existence of a divine intelligence. Romans 1:20 says, “For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse.” This passage suggests that the natural world reveals the existence of God.
  3. The argument from morality. Many people argue that the existence of moral absolutes points to the existence of God. If there are objective moral truths that apply to all people at all times, then there must be some kind of transcendent standard by which these truths are determined. Colossians 1:15-17 says, “He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation. For by him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things were created by him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together.” This passage suggests that Jesus, as the creator of all things, is the source of moral truths and standards.
  4. The argument from consciousness. Some argue that the existence of consciousness and the human capacity for self-reflection point to the existence of a divine creator. If the universe is simply a collection of matter and energy, how do we account for the fact that we are able to think, feel, and contemplate our own existence? John 1:1-3 says, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made.” This passage suggests that the Word, or Jesus, is the source of all creation, including the human capacity for consciousness and self-reflection.
  1. The argument from scripture. For believers, the Bible is a key source of evidence for the existence of God. The Bible presents itself as the word of God, and contains many passages that point to the existence and nature of God. For example, Hebrews 3:4 says, “For every house is built by someone, but God is the builder of everything.” This passage suggests that God is the ultimate creator and sustainer of all things.

In conclusion, there are several lines of evidence that point to the existence of God. While it is ultimately a matter of faith, these arguments provide compelling reasons to consider the possibility of a divine being. As believers, we can find hope and meaning in the knowledge that God exists, and that He has a purpose and plan for our lives.

Keywords: God, existence, evidence, faith, creation, design, morality, consciousness, bible, Psalm 19:1-4, Romans 1:20, Colossians 1:15-17, John 1:1-3, Hebrews 3:4

Navigating the World of Modern Dating as a Christian

Navigating the World of Modern Dating as a Christian: Tips and Advice

As believers, we are called to honor God in all aspects of our lives, including our relationships. But in a world where the dating scene can be complex and confusing, it can be challenging to know how to navigate it as a Christian. In this blog post, we will explore some tips and advice for Christian singles seeking to honor God in their dating lives.

Keywords: Christian dating, modern dating, God, honor, relationships, values, boundaries, communication, community, purity, waiting for marriage, forgiveness, Ephesians 5:3, Colossians 3:14, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4

  1. Know your values and boundaries. As a Christian, it’s important to have a clear understanding of your values and boundaries, and to look for a partner who shares those values. This means knowing what is important to you, and being willing to stand firm in your convictions. It also means being open and honest about your expectations and desires in a relationship. Ephesians 5:3 says, “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people.” Colossians 3:14 adds, “And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” By being clear about your values and boundaries, you can better ensure that you are entering into a relationship that is honoring to God.
  2. Practice good communication. In any relationship, communication is key. This means being open and honest about your feelings, needs, and expectations, and being willing to listen to and consider the perspective of your partner. It also means being respectful and kind in your words and actions. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 says, “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable.” By practicing good communication in your dating relationships,you can build trust and respect, and establish a strong foundation for a healthy relationship.
  1. Seek community and support. Navigating the dating scene can be challenging, and it’s important to have a support system to lean on. This means finding a community of believers who can offer guidance, encouragement, and accountability. It can also be helpful to talk with a mentor or trusted friend about your dating experiences and decisions. By seeking community and support, you can gain perspective and wisdom as you navigate the world of modern dating as a Christian.
  2. Practice purity. As believers, it’s important to practice purity in our dating relationships. This means abstaining from sexual activity outside of marriage, and honoring God with our bodies. It also means being mindful of other ways we might compromise our purity, such as by engaging in inappropriate or suggestive conversations or activities. By practicing purity, we can honor God and demonstrate our commitment to Him.
  3. Consider waiting for marriage. While there is no one-size-fits-all approach to dating and relationships, some Christians choose to wait until marriage to engage in sexual activity. There are many benefits to waiting for marriage, including the opportunity to build a strong foundation of trust and commitment, and to avoid the emotional and physical consequences of premarital sex. If you are considering waiting for marriage, it can be helpful to have open and honest conversations with your partner about your expectations and desires.
  4. Practice forgiveness. In any relationship, conflicts and misunderstandings are bound to occur. It’s important to remember that forgiveness is a key part of any healthy relationship, and to be willing to extend grace to your partner when they make mistakes. Colossians 3:13 says, “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” By practicing forgiveness in your dating relationships, you can build trust and deepen your bond with your partner.

In conclusion, navigating the world of modern dating as a Christian can be challenging, but it is also an opportunity to honor God and grow in your faith. By being clear about your values and boundaries, practicing good communication, seeking community and support, practicing purity, considering waiting for marriage, and practicing forgiveness, you can enter into dating relationships that are honoring to God and beneficial for your personal growth.

Love Your Neighbor as Yourself

Love Your Neighbor as Yourself: Practical Tips and Ideas for Christian Living

As Christians, we are called to love our neighbors as ourselves. But what does this love look like in practice? How can we put this commandment into action in our daily lives? In this blog post, we will explore practical ways to show love to our neighbors and live out our faith through compassion, kindness, and advocacy for justice.

First, let’s consider what it means to love our neighbors as ourselves. This love is not just a feeling, but a choice to actively seek the well-being of others. It means treating others with kindness and respect, and putting their needs before our own. It also means standing up for others when they are mistreated or marginalized.

So, how can we put this love into action? Here are a few ideas:

  1. Volunteer your time and resources. One way to show love to your neighbors is by giving of your time and resources. This could mean volunteering at a local soup kitchen or homeless shelter, or donating money or items to a charitable organization. By using your talents and resources to serve others, you can make a positive impact in your community.
  2. Show kindness and compassion. Simple acts of kindness can go a long way in showing love to your neighbors. This could mean smiling and saying hello to people you meet on the street, holding the door open for someone, or offering a helping hand to someone in need. By showing kindness and compassion to others, you can make their day a little brighter and demonstrate your love for them.
  3. Stand up for justice. Love for one’s neighbor also means advocating for justice and standing up for those who are marginalized or mistreated. This could mean speaking out against injustice, joining a social justice movement, or supporting organizations that work to promote equality and fairness. By taking action to promote justice, you can show love to your neighbors in a tangible way.
  4. Pray for others. Prayer is a powerful way to show love to your neighbors, even if you don’t know them personally. By lifting others up in prayer, you can support them and ask God to bless them. You can also pray for opportunities to show love and compassion to those around you.

Loving our neighbors as ourselves is a fundamental aspect of the Christian faith. By putting this love into action, we can make a positive impact in our communities and demonstrate the love of Christ to those around us.

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Keywords: Christian living, love your neighbor, compassion, kindness, justice, social justice, volunteering, charitable giving, prayer

Finding Hope in Christ

Finding Hope in Christ

As Christians, we are called to put our hope in Jesus and to trust in Him, no matter what circumstances we may be facing. This can be difficult at times, especially when we are going through challenging or difficult situations. In this blog post, we will explore what the Bible says about hope, and consider how we can find hope in Christ, no matter what we may be facing.

  1. What is hope? Hope is confidence in God and His promises.

According to the Bible, hope is confidence in God and His promises. Psalm 62:5 says, “Yes, my soul, find rest in God; my hope comes from him.” This verse suggests that hope comes from God, and that it is a source of rest and comfort for our souls. Isaiah 40:31 adds, “but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” This verse suggests that when we hope in the Lord, He gives us strength and enables us to persevere, even in the face of challenges.

  1.  We can find hope in Christ by trusting in Him and His promises.

One way we can find hope in Christ is by trusting in Him and His promises. Romans 15:13 says, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” This verse suggests that when we trust in God, He fills us with joy, peace, and hope through the power of the Holy Spirit. Hebrews 6:19 adds, “We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure.” This verse suggests that hope serves as an anchor for our souls, and that it is firm and secure.

  1. We can find hope in Christ by remembering His faithfulness.

Another way we can find hope in Christ is by remembering His faithfulness. As we go through difficult or challenging situations, it can be easy to lose sight of God’s goodness and faithfulness. However, by reminding ourselves of the ways in which God has been faithful in the past, we can find hope and encouragement for the present and the future.

  1. We can find hope in Christ by looking to the cross.

Finally, we can find hope in Christ by looking to the cross. The cross is a powerful reminder of God’s love for us, and of the fact that He was willing to send His Son to die for our sins. As we reflect on the significance of the cross, let us be reminded of the hope that it offers, and let us trust in the power of the resurrection to give us new life in Christ.

In conclusion, we can find hope in Christ by trusting in Him and His promises, by remembering His faithfulness, and by looking to the cross. May we seek to put our hope in Jesus, and may we find encouragement and strength as we trust in Him.

 

Keywords: hope, Christ, trust, Psalm 62:5, Isaiah 40:31, Romans 15:13, Hebrews 6:19

Dealing with Anger & Frustration as a Christian

Dealing with Anger & Frustration as a Christian

As believers, we are called to follow Jesus and imitate His character, including His love and self-control. But sometimes, we may struggle with negative emotions like anger and frustration. In this blog post, we will explore some biblical strategies for dealing with these emotions in a healthy and godly way.

Keywords: anger, frustration, Christian, self-control, love, Ephesians 4:26-27, James 1:19-20, Philippians 4:6-7, Colossians 3:13, Proverbs 16:32

  1. Seek to understand the root cause of your emotions. Anger and frustration can be complex emotions, and it’s important to take time to understand the root cause of these feelings. Sometimes, our anger may be justified and based on a real offense or injustice. In these cases, it’s important to address the issue in a healthy and appropriate way. Other times, our anger may be fueled by deeper issues such as fear, insecurity, or unmet needs. By taking the time to understand the root cause of our emotions, we can better address the issue and find healthy ways to cope.
  2. Practice self-control. As believers, we are called to practice self-control in all areas of our lives. This means being mindful of our thoughts, words, and actions, and seeking to honor God in all that we do. Ephesians 4:26-27 says, “Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil.” This passage reminds us that it’s important to deal with our anger in a timely manner, and not to let it fester and lead to sin. James 1:19-20 adds, “Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.” By practicing self-control, we can better manage our emotions and act in ways that are honoring to God.
  1. Seek peace and contentment. In Philippians 4:6-7, we read, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” This passage reminds us that we can find peace and contentment in Christ, even in difficult circumstances. By seeking God’s presence and guidance through prayer, we can find a sense of calm and rest in Him.
  2. Practice forgiveness. As believers, we are called to practice forgiveness, even when it is difficult. Colossians 3:13 says, “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” This passage reminds us that forgiveness is a key part of any healthy relationship, and that it is an essential part of our faith. By practicing forgiveness, we can let go of anger and bitterness, and find healing and reconciliation in our relationships.
  3. Seek to resolve conflicts in a healthy and godly way. When conflicts arise, it’s important to seek to resolve them in a healthy and godly way. This may mean seeking the guidance of a trusted friend or mentor, or seeking mediation or counseling. Proverbs 16:32 says, “Better a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper than one who takes a city.” This passage reminds us that it’s important to approach conflicts with patience and self-control, rather than reacting in anger. By seeking to resolve conflicts in a healthy and godly way, we can better manage our emotions and build strong, healthy relationships.

In conclusion, dealing with anger and frustration as a Christian can be challenging, but it is also an opportunity to grow in our faith and reflect the character of Jesus. By seeking to understand the root cause of our emotions, practicing self-control, seeking peace and contentment, practicing forgiveness, and seeking to resolve conflicts in a healthy and godly way, we can better manage our negative emotions and act in ways that are honoring to God. May we strive to imitate Jesus in all that we do, including how we deal with anger and frustration.

Abortion

Abortion and What The Bible Says

Abortion is a highly controversial and emotionally charged issue, and it’s important for believers to understand what the Bible has to say about it. In this blog post, we will explore what the Bible teaches about abortion, and consider how we can approach this difficult issue in a way that is faithful to God’s Word.

  1. The Bible affirms the value and dignity of human life. From the very beginning, the Bible affirms the value and dignity of human life. In Psalm 139:13-16, we read, “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.” This passage reminds us that God is the creator of life, and that every person is fearfully and wonderfully made in His image.
  2. The Bible prohibits the taking of innocent human life. The Bible also makes it clear that the taking of innocent human life is wrong. In the Ten Commandments, God says, “You shall not murder” (Exodus 20:13). The Hebrew word used here, “ratsach,” refers to the intentional taking of innocent human life, and is a grave sin in the eyes of God. This prohibition against murder applies to all stages of life, including the pre-born.
  1. The Bible recognizes the personhood of the pre-born. In several places, the Bible recognizes the personhood of the pre-born child. For example, in Exodus 21:22-25, we read, “If men who are fighting hit a pregnant woman and she gives birth prematurely but there is no serious injury, the offender must be fined whatever the woman’s husband demands and the court allows. But if there is serious injury, you are to take life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, burn for burn, wound for wound, bruise for bruise.” This passage indicates that the pre-born child is considered a life, and that harm to the child is subject to the same penalties as harm to a born person. Similarly, in Luke 1:44, we see that the pre-born child John the Baptist recognized the presence of Jesus in the womb of his mother, Elizabeth, and “leaped for joy.” This suggests that the pre-born child is a person with feelings and emotions.
  2. The Bible calls for protection and care for the vulnerable. Throughout the Bible, we see God calling His people to protect and care for the vulnerable, including the pre-born. In Psalm 22:10, we read, “From birth I was cast upon you; from my mother’s womb you have been my God.” This passage reminds us that God is present with us from the moment of conception, and that He is our protector and provider from the very beginning of life.

In conclusion, the Bible affirms the value and dignity of human life, prohibits the taking of innocent human life, recognizes the personhood of the pre-born, and calls for protection and care for the vulnerable. As believers, it is important for us to consider these biblical principles when thinking about the issue of abortion. While the decision to have an abortion is a deeply personal one, we are called to make choices that honor God and reflect His character. This may mean seeking out resources and support to help us navigate difficult circumstances, or considering alternatives to abortion such as adoption. Above all, we must trust in God’s sovereignty and grace, and seek His guidance and wisdom as we navigate this complex and sensitive issue.

Keywords: abortion, Bible, life, abortion, sanctity of life, Psalm 139:13-16, Exodus 20:13, Exodus 21:22-25, Luke 1:44, Psalm 22:10

Ways to Cultivate a Kingdom Mindset in Your Daily Life

5 Ways to Cultivate a Kingdom Mindset in Your Daily Life

As believers, we are called to seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness (Matthew 6:33). But what does it mean to have a Kingdom mindset, and how can we cultivate this perspective in our daily lives? In this blog post, we will explore five ways to cultivate a Kingdom mindset in our daily lives, and how this mindset can shape our priorities, values, and actions.

Keywords: Kingdom mindset, Kingdom of God, righteousness, priorities, values, actions, biblical perspective, Christ-centered living, kingdom-minded prayer

  1. Seek a biblical perspective. In order to have a Kingdom mindset, we need to understand what the Bible has to say about God’s perspective on the world. This means regularly reading and studying the Bible, and seeking to understand its teachings and apply them to our lives. By immersing ourselves in the Word, we can gain a better understanding of God’s character and priorities.
  2. Practice Christ-centered living. Another way to cultivate a Kingdom mindset is by striving to live a Christ-centered life. This means making Jesus the center of our lives, and seeking to follow His example and teachings in all we do. It means living out the values of the Kingdom, such as love, compassion, and justice, and allowing these values to shape our actions and decisions. Practicing Christ-centered living involves aligning our hearts and minds with Jesus, and seeking to honor Him in all we do.
  1. Focus on the things that matter most. Another key aspect of having a Kingdom mindset is focusing on the things that matter most. This means prioritizing our time and resources in a way that aligns with God’s priorities. It means seeking to use our gifts and abilities to serve God and others, and making a positive impact in the world. It also means recognizing that our time on earth is temporary, and seeking to invest in eternal things that will last beyond our earthly lives.
  2. Practice kingdom-minded prayer. Another way to cultivate a Kingdom mindset is by praying in a way that aligns with God’s priorities. This means seeking to understand what God is doing in the world, and praying for His will to be done. It also means interceding for others, and praying for the needs of those around us. By praying in this way, we can become more attuned to God’s perspective and priorities.
  3. Surround yourself with like-minded people. Finally, cultivating a Kingdom mindset can be aided by surrounding ourselves with like-minded people who also seek to follow Jesus and live according to His values. By being part of a community of believers who share our values and priorities, we can encourage and support one another in living out the Kingdom of God.

In conclusion, having a Kingdom mindset means seeing the world through the lens of the Kingdom of God, and aligning our priorities and values with those of God. It involves putting God’s priorities first, embracing His values and priorities, focusing on the things that matter most, and practicing kingdom-minded prayer. By cultivating a Kingdom mindset, we can better understand God’s perspective on the world, and live in a way that reflects His character and purposes. By following these five steps, we can take practical steps towards cultivating a Kingdom mindset in our daily lives.

Why Does God Allow Suffering and Hardship

Why Does God Allow Suffering and Hardship?

As Christians, it is natural to question why God allows suffering and hardship to exist in the world. We may wonder why God would allow us or those we love to go through difficult times, and we may feel confused, frustrated, or even angry when faced with suffering. In this blog post, we will explore some possible answers to this question, and consider how we can find hope and comfort in the midst of suffering.

  1. Suffering can serve as a way for us to grow and mature in our faith.

One perspective is that suffering can serve as a way for us to grow and mature in our faith. Through suffering, we may be able to draw closer to God, rely on Him more, and find strength and comfort in His presence. In Romans 5:3-5, it says, “Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.”

  1. Suffering is not unique to Christians, and people of all beliefs experience hardship.

It is important to remember that suffering is not unique to Christians, and that people of all beliefs and backgrounds experience hardship and pain. God does not cause suffering, but He can bring good out of it, if we trust in Him and seek His will. In John 9:3, Jesus said, “Neither this man nor his parents sinned, but this happened so that the work of God might be displayed in his life.”

  1. God has a plan for our lives, even in the midst of suffering.

God is sovereign and has a plan for our lives, even in the midst of suffering. While we may not always understand why suffering happens, we can trust in God’s goodness and His promise to one day bring an end to all suffering and to make all things new. In Revelation 21:4, it says, “He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”

  1. We can find hope and comfort in God’s presence and His Word.

When we are facing suffering or hardship, it can be helpful to turn to God’s Word and to seek His presence through prayer and worship. God’s Word is a source of hope and comfort, and it can help us to find strength and perspective in difficult times. Psalm 23 is a well-known passage that speaks of God’s faithfulness and care, even in the midst of suffering: “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me” (Psalm 23:4).

In conclusion, while we may not always understand why suffering happens, we can trust in God’s goodness and His promise to one day bring an end to all suffering. May we seek to find hope and comfort in His presence and His Word, and may we trust in His sovereign plan for our lives.

Keywords: suffering, hardship, persecution, Romans 5:3-5, John 9:3, Revelation 21:4

Purity Culture

Understanding Purity Culture

Purity culture is a term that refers to a set of beliefs and practices surrounding sexual purity, particularly within the context of Christianity. Purity culture emphasizes the importance of abstaining from sex before marriage and often places a heavy emphasis on external markers of purity, such as wearing a purity ring or saving one’s first kiss for the wedding day. In this blog post, we will explore the origins of purity culture, its pros and cons, and how Christians can approach the topic of sexual purity in a healthy and biblical way.

  1. The origins of purity culture.

Purity culture can be traced back to the 1990s, when organizations like True Love Waits and the Silver Ring Thing began promoting the idea of sexual purity and abstinence until marriage. Purity culture gained widespread popularity in the 2000s, with the publication of books like “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” by Joshua Harris and the release of the movie “Fireproof,” which featured a couple committed to saving sex for marriage.

  1. The pros of purity culture.

One of the main pros of purity culture is that it promotes sexual purity and encourages people to wait until marriage to have sex. This aligns with God’s design for sex and can help to protect individuals from the risks and consequences of premarital sex. Purity culture can also foster strong relationships and promote commitment and trust within a dating relationship.

  1. The cons of purity culture.

While there are certainly some positive aspects to purity culture, there are also some negative aspects to consider. One of the main cons is that it can create a culture of shame and guilt surrounding sex. Some people who have engaged in premarital sex may feel like they are unworthy or unacceptable in the eyes of God or the church. This can lead to feelings of shame and low self-worth.

Another issue with purity culture is that it often places a heavy emphasis on external markers of purity, such as wearing a purity ring or saving one’s first kiss for the wedding day. This can create a focus on outward appearances rather than on the heart and can lead to a performance-based approach to purity.

  1. A biblical approach to sexual purity.

As Christians, it is important for us to approach the topic of sexual purity in a way that is grounded in the Bible and that promotes a healthy and holistic understanding of God’s design for sex. Here are a few biblical principles to consider:

  • God created sex and intended it to be a special and intimate part of marriage (Genesis 2:24).
  • Sex before marriage is considered sexual immorality and is a sin (1 Corinthians 6:18).
  • We are to have self-control and to use our bodies in a way that honors God (1 Corinthians 9:27).
  • Purity is not just about abstaining from sex; it is about honoring God with our whole lives (1 Timothy 4:12).

In conclusion, purity culture is a movement that promotes sexual purity and abstinence until marriage. While there are certainly some positive aspects to this movement, there are also some negative aspects to consider. As Christians, it is important for us to approach the topic of sexual purity in a way that is grounded in the Bible and that promotes a healthy and holistic understanding of God’s design for sex. Let us seek to honor God with our bodies and to live in a way that is pleasing to Him.

Keywords: purity culture, sexual purity, Christianity, abstinence, relationship with God